When it comes to choosing a romantic partner, there’s a big difference between settling and being smart so that you’re …
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Where Are the Single People in Your City?
People often ask me, “Where can I meet other single people?” It’s a good question because if you grow your pool …
Do Something Beautiful
In this video for The Atlantic, author George Saunders provides some of the best writing advice I’ve heard about how to …
Speaking at the Conference on World Affairs
If you happen to be in Boulder, CO this week, I’ll be participating in the Conference on World Affairs at …
Three Views of Marriage by David Brooks
David Brooks provides a smart perspective on modern marriage in this New York Times article about three views of marriage, including the personality perspective from The Science of Happily Ever After…
In Matters of Love, Kindness Finishes First
…an articulate message about the powerful, but often overlooked influence of kindness on so many aspects of our close relationships…
RealSimple.com: Organize Your Approach to Dating
My friends who subscribe to Real Simple magazine always seem so on top of their lives. They have things like entryway …
The Elle & Esquire Love Experiment
In early February, Keziah Weir from Elle magazine contacted me with an unusual request. She was working on an assignment for …
Vice News: The Modern American Family
Here’s an episode I did with Vice News about the changing face of dating and marriage in the United States. …
Personal Growth Following Breakups
This article at Elite Daily is about a study of breakups and personal growth that Patricia Frazier and I conducted while I was a graduate student at the University of Minnesota…
Using Your Mind To Find Love
This podcast is from an American Psychological Association interview about “Using Your Mind to Find Love.” I thought they asked me …
Personality Scale from The Science of Happily Ever After
You can find the personality measure from Chapter Seven by clicking on the button below. I told the journal that published the …