Use this widget to construct your ideal partner. Imagine that you start with 1000 eligible partners, randomly selected from the general population, and you get to construct your ideal mate based on characteristics such as attractiveness, personality, etc.

Click on the “Preference” cells and an arrow will appear. Then, click on the arrow to see the range of choices for each trait and make your wish.

You can see that after three to four wishes, most people will rule out 99% of their potential mates, so it’s smart to prioritize the traits that are most important to you. This widget is built from data in Chapter Two of The Science of Happily Ever After.

For more, see this short video: Psychology Tricks to Find Real Love.